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6 Myths That Stand In Your Way
April 18th, 2010 by Mark Harrison
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1. Myth: There is time
2. Myth: You can rely on other people
3. Myth: You are important
4. Myth: You should put others before yourself
5. Myth: Conflict should be avoided
6. Myth: The difference between success and failure is LUCK.
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Ahhh, myths, I can relate to this one. I was so … … stupid, lazy, dumb,
Shoulda, coulda, and woulda!
Paradigms are the way we perceive the world (i.e., the JoHari window). Memes, like genes for ideas, are the units of thoughts that transfer and modify behavior.
Myths are a erroneous paradigms and memes.
So is the problem, the difference, that we now perceive them as “wrong”. By what standard?
So we have paradigms and memes that, being wrong, interfere with a successful life and a successful jobsearch.
Some of them that have particularly screwed me up.
1. I believed people. They lied. I acted on those beliefs. And, I did damage that I can’t even know or assess.
2. I “coasted” when it would have been trivial to do the work. Again, another hit that can’t be assessed.
3. I read a mensa piece (i.e., human being owner’s manual) many many moons ago. I thought it was a joke. Little did I know how true it was.
4. I have heard many of the self-help gurus and read many of the self-help texts. Read, but didn’t grok. Preused but didn’t action.
5. I didn’t play the “political game” at my various stops along my career path. Who knows what could have been?
6. I urged people to forgive themselves. I have to do the same. The “more than a year” amnesty. All sins forgiven; not forgotten.
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